Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Will You Join Me in Love?

“We have all known the long loneliness and we have learned that the only solution is love and that love comes with community.” – Dorothy Day

One of my favorite parts of Dorothy Day’s autobiography, The Long Loneliness is the postscript at the end. She writes, “We were just sitting there talking when…” She goes on say that Peter Maurin came, and lines of people needing bread—and she couldn’t tell them, “Go, be thou filled!” Folks moved in and the walls expanded. “It was as casual as that,” Dorothy writes, “It just came about. It just happened.”

My friend Lisa Samson and I were just sitting there talking when someone brought up human trafficking. I’ve always wanted to do something to relieve this brand of suffering. The needs are astounding, but these victims are so easily forgotten, truly the least of the least of these Jesus talked about. Turns out Lisa always wanted to do something for this needy group of people God loves so much, too. In the wee hours of the morning, a work of mercy and hospitality, The Living Room was born.

We’re going to get a building in downtown Lexington. People have already offered their expertise to help us get started. In a safe, cozy respite, we’ll quietly offer compassion, coffee, and a comfortable seat to women who come off the street, or find their way to us by other means. We’re going to preach the gospel, but only use words when we absolutely must. If the ladies need more we’ll give them that, too. We’ll make wrap-around services available. God sent me to school, inexplicably, to be a social worker fifteen years ago. Now I know why. Ken and I, and the whole Burney brood were on our way to Lexington on August 3 for our first vision trip. We were so excited.

On July 28th, our car was stolen. Two days later, we got an eviction notice. Most of the time I’m given room to get our rent payments in. Our apartment managers know I’m a writer. My income comes in slowly, but I wasn’t given that wide and generous berth this time. We have ten days to leave. I don’t have the means to fix this. I’ve tried, in the most humbling, pride crushing ways, but I gots nuthin’. I have felt every terror and loneliness a mother with four children and a disabled husband would feel in this awful predicament. But I keep hearing voices—no, not that kind!—but friends urging me to ask my readers and cyber-friends for help. Among those voices is my soul-mother Dorothy Day who said, “the only solution is love, and that love comes with community.”

If I’ve had an intentional community, it’s been here in the little slice of cyber-space I call ragamuffin diva. Through this blog, God gave me the best people I’ve ever known. And He gave me to you. We have laughed, cried, prayed, and stumbled along on the journey together. Now, I need your help, as I never have before.

Will you join me in love? Could you find it in your heart to be a part of the solution to this difficult set of circumstances? I want you to be part of our mission to love people for Jesus. Will you help my family get to Lexington where opportunity awaits us? We would be so grateful. Mair

If you’d like to help please use the chipin widget on the right hand side of this blog. Or you can go to The "event" would be Claudia Mair Burney Family Relocation.

Thank you so much.


Heidi Renee said...

you're welcome - much much love!

wilsonian said...

Powerful things happen when the two of you get together... :)


ragamuffin diva said...

It's true, Erin. And thank YOU so much! It's powerful when the three of us get together.

Heidi Renee said...

this is oh so a god thing - and you need to journal the whole story mair - it's part of that memoir, i just know it.

Alison Strobel Morrow said...

Hey girlfriend--I posted on my blog last night, but I couldn't figure out how to post a ChipIn widget that was linked to yours, so I just have my own going. :)

Love you!!!!

Alison Strobel Morrow said...

Hey--thanks to Heidi I got the "official" Chip In widget on my blog. :) But the one I'd started had $110 in it, so add that to the total you have and you're already over a thousand bucks! Woot!

wilsonian said...

I forgot to add a note to that last one. It's in honour of my blog friends. xo

ragamuffin diva said...

God is so good!

Rhonda Jeanne said...

Girl, Look at you go!

Heidi Renee said...

so what's going on? when do you go? please let us go along for the ride, k??